marriage and birthdayzzz and dubbayzzz

Now what do people generally do on their 23rd bday...Well drink and smoke was the response a friend of mine gave when I told that I did not do any of them..Well I did drink water and Pepsi but that wud be like trying to skin the already thin hair.
Well coming to the point again..a day before I called up my fren askin for some info. regarding a fren.She remembered my bday and asked my how am i celebrating..same response no drinking no smoking ..and she is shocked...and to add to this i am celebrating my bday on 17th nite with my frens (which is a tuesday and my bday is on 18th) [..and tuesday is such a holy day..was my reason d'etre for not drinking which is again my silly PJ.]
So what do people really do ..I want to go to a disco and party but I need some money..which for some particular reason I am alwayz short of..and have been in particular fr the past month or so..
I want to get into my Birthday (dubbay if we try to manipulate it : a PJ i borrowed frm a fren) dress i.e. the one I was born with and get naughty with a girl..
now another diversion from the point here...I read just today that how Marriage is our national obsession and a national pastime..For a girl it particulary seems to me to be the end of the world or the strt of it..for me it looks the end of it..not that I dont want to get married..but without real love i dont see myself marrying..it will be such a drag for my wife...and with the copious amount of time i spend on my computer these dayz...and the amount of work which my job will mount on me..i dont see my self getting towards this any sooner..Also I met this PYT recently who looked pretty intelligent to me..infact pretty and intelligent..she luked career focussed and i was shocked out of my chair when she said that she wants to get into marriage and be home-oriented because she sees that women have that kind of role to play..so much for the women's reservation...how does one see the 33% filled if women of such good calibre dont rise up..for me i think women themselves will have to come up and win their right rightfully..no one will dish them out..
Anyways coming bcak to the fact about marriage...I read this today..and i must repeat it for you how if you(and me ofcourse) like someone ..we have to come to the point of marriage soon enough and propose soon...because you guessed it (our marriage-affiniated societal norms will see to it that) she gets married..this is a toss-up between a devil and a deep sea..to be precise..

I have been inspired to write longer blogs for some reason now..so i shall continue the spirit..
so how many birthdayz shall i see off before i get married ..lets hope its not an imaginary no.
Now coming to the main point of my bday celebrations..

lets get drunk..its been a while..